I am sorry but I won't be on to much because....

My husband has been playing the game war of warcrafts for like a year now and he loves it. within the last couple of months he has been playing with a group of the same people and he is on the thing all night. At first he tells me he will be getting texts from people in the group to let him know when to be on do to runs (whatever runs are?????) so, okay whatever.

Then I went to answer he phone for him because he was busy and didn't get it in time. So, he asked me to look to see who it was (it was his dad) but I noticed a lot of called from someone named Lyndi. I asked who it was and he said someone on the game. I then asked why they were having long conversations on the phone. He said it was only to tell when to play. So, I asked, how long does it take to tell the time and why are you talking on the phone with some women all the time?

Then he says she needs him. They are really good friends and she doesn't have any friends off the game and needs to talk because her husband beats on her. I got pissed and told him that was wrong and he shouldn't be talking with her. And that she should get off the computer go out in the real world and make some friends and get help. Her talking to my husband was going to solve her problems. So, he told her that he wasn't going to talk to her on the phone anymore and that they should just play the game and keep it about the game. (well, this is what he told me he said, and like a big ass I believed him)

A few days later he is talking about the big group getting together to have a convention to play the game together. I don't understand that star trek shit either. He said it's just a bunch of people playing on their computer in the same room as a team against others. So, we will be paying $500.00 or more for him to go to another state to play a game on our computer??????????????

As he is getting stuff organized with the trip that he will be going on at the beginning of February, he say there are only going to be 7 of them and one is that girl. And she was telling him which hotel was the best. If you are talking to her how did you get the information from her I ask?? He said, well we talk sometime, I love talking to her and the way she treats me. What, you don't know her or even what she looks like, heck maybe she isn't even a girl? And he said, oh we talk on the game now with the microphones and she sound like a girl. We argued a little more. sorry out the butt, but is still going and really wants to be able to continue talking with her, she needs him. I said then pack your shit and move in with her and her husband.

Finally, things back to normal, so I thought and then out of the blue last night my husband wants to separate and live in the basement. Tell me all kinds of stuff that is wrong with our relationship and that he isn't good enough for me and just needs to let me go. For hours he went on and on. I had a terrible time sleeps and get up to pay the bills online and my laptop isn't on my desk. I went downstairs and guess what he is talking to that B***H on the computer!!!!!!!!!!!!

I asked for the computer and he said he would bring it up to me and he has to finish. I said no, I will wait for him to get done. He said no, I will bring it up I need to finish what I am going on here. I asked are you talking to her. No, no I'm not talking to her, I promise. Just go upstairs and I will be up in a minute to talk to you. I said, you are lieing, give me the computer now! So, I go to get it and he said, hey, I have to go ~ I am log out now and hurried and hit the button before I could see. And I asked again and he said yes, he was talking to her about our problems and she told him to stay with me and work it out because she wasn't leaving her husband. So, then he changing his tune and wants to be a big happy family and for me to forget everything that has happened. I don't think I can.

I am typing this so fast I am sure I left out half of the information, but I am crying to hard to read it over to check. I just don't know what to do and I don't know if I can ever trust him again.

We are both going to take a week off from the computer and see if we can work this out. I am not sure what to do, I am so confused.


  1. I am so sorry to read this post. Sounds to me like this woman is manipulating your husband into playing the knight that saves the damsel in distress. I am NOT making excuses for him though. I'm glad you are trying to work this out. Feel free to email me or message me through MBC to talk. I mean that! Sometimes it's easier to talk to someone who is apart from it all...like an online friend. So, if you need me, I will be here.

  2. Wow sweetie I understand how you feel he was having a emotional affair. True it's easier to talk to a faceless woman online then the woman you live with. But maybe he needs time to figure out how to talk to you about whatever it is that he has going on with him. On line fantasy can mess with someone perspective, maybe he just got swept up in the whole thing........... But good luck to you. I know times are going to be tough for you but decided if you will fight for your man or let him go.......... Heck let him know that!

  3. Wow! I'm am so sorry you have to go through this. It must be very difficult to know what to do.

  4. I'm so sorry you have to go thru this. I don't know what to advise but I'm praying for you.


  5. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong.

  6. its hard to trust again once you have been disappointed by someone you love, but maybe this is the wake up call you both need, sometimes we get so comfortable in our marraige that we sometimes lose the look, that thing that we once had, so don't give up to quick, talking to someone can help, make sure the good out wieghs the bad and if it does then work it out and if it doesnt then you know what to do, don't let him ruin your holidays

  7. Look. Things get tough and people try to distrupt our lives and we as women cannot allow that to happen. Your right. The computer is sometimes overwhelming and can distract us from our daily lives and those important to us. I think that when we have a moment to get on and do our stuff, do it then spend the rest of our time with those who mean the most to us. A break is what you both need. A moment to remember why you fell in love and this biotch needs to recognize. Let me give her an ear full...wont be pretty! Just because her life is in the gutter she wants to make others and to you my friend I say hold your ground, dont let no one drag you down and hold your head up high:) Muahhh

  8. Honestly, I went through the same thing with an ex. I hope your year gets much better.