How can I be happy for christmas?

Christmas time ~ my favorite time of the year! sled bells ring, Frosty the snowman and santa. Presents under the tree, tinel everywhere! The holiday season of smiles and cheer, well I don't have it this year.

Instead it lose the wedding ring, ex husband to be and cheaters. Warcraft games and misery everywhere! The holiday season of tears and numbness.

I have to find a way to be happy and make it a time to remember for Adam. I put the tree up and the lights are on. We have some cute snowmen ornaments to put on, but do I unpack them or keep the boxes ready to go.

My husband took the weekend to spend with me and said maybe we can work it out and then when I came home Sunday from work, I was told that he changed his mind and wants to be able to play on the computer longer.

I would love to write a letter to this women from the game, not sure if I would send it but I would feel better. Matt and I have been talking and he doesn't care about my feeling so writing the letter to hiim would be a waist of time.

Has anyone gone there divorce? How did you do? Any advice on how to make it so Adam doesn't feel like it is his fault? Or how to make sure he isn't unhappy. I really want to be able to make the right choices for him and not think about my unhappiness and make the wrong choices. Any and all help ~ I would love.


  1. I am so sorry that you are going through this during the holidays. It is difficult but have faith that you will make it through. Your son need not know what is really going on right now until both you and your husband have decided what it is you want to do. Whatever it is that you decide, be true to yourself and be true to your heart.

  2. there was a great special on oprah on how to talk to your kids after a divorce. I can't remember who the person was. new follower from mbc

  3. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I don't have any advice, I am a single mom myself, but just stay strong. You're a wonderful person and mother and you will get through this!

  4. Praying for you..i am on my 3rd marriage, i think i was stupid all the way into my late 20's. been married 15 years and still going strong. if you wanna talk, e-mail me.

    found you on MBC